5'8" 150# fit, solid, smooth, athletic, adept, strong looking for competitive-but-safe freestyle/submission and muscle to muscle grappling with fit guys my size who are good wrestlers (the more parity the better so if not all three I wont respond).  Good all-around athlete growing up, high school star and earned a D1 athletic scholarship.  No pro, cyber, verbal, chokes/breath control, strikes, stalkers, dorks trying to validate themselves to compensate for being non-athletic growing up. Just enjoy it for what it is. You are what you were in high school. Don't ask me to wrestle in a ring and I don't go to wrestling events.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8ITA_jFkyY&t=4s
This video is like the wrestling my buddy and I did in his parents' big downstairs den when we'd go home for college summers. He was my height, weight and proportioning and, like me, he wrestled on the team at some point and was a good all-around athlete. We transitioned from tennis, basketball, running or lifting to wrestling without having to say anything. We'd just de-shirt and go at it. Two equal guys competing every athletic way we could. We double-dated and even those things had a competitive vibe. To complete that relationship we probably should have had a fist fight and made out (not at the same time), both of which we verged on a lot. My take on wrestling has not changed from when I was in college. Move the furniture or find a good space anywhere and go at it. I experimented with accommodating other guys' turn-ons to explore and make the match enjoyable for them and went with it for a while but I wasn't good at it and it missed the point of genuine masculinity and athleticism. It was a liberating to get rid of the gear guys gave me or I bought because I was asked to. I let people talk me into that stuff. In this context, I'm just about no-agenda grappling for fun. Mutual struggle between equals. Not into anal, which is not just one act, it is an entire outlook. I'm still looking for another me. I don't ask for traits I myself don't offer.