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So, the other day I came across a profile on here and it IMMEDIATELY got my attention. I mean, this dude checked off ALL the Boxes. Handsome, Muscular, nice pics of him in boxing gear and he knew how to hold his hands making me think he was a legit fighter that he could give me a decent if not good fight. Dude was a TOTAL Stud! I HAD TO FIGHT HIM! We were close in height but he outweighed me so hopefully my skills could more than make up for the difference.

BUT! Something seemed off about the profile. You know that feeling you get when a prize or thing is just Too Good to be True and you’re waiting for that other shoe to drop to discover the real prize behind it all. AND that’s when I went over his profile with a fine tooth comb. My FIRST Alarm was seeing that he had NO Past fights. SECOND, he had NO past recommendations. “Wait… What?” How is a prize like this guy on MeetFighters, living in a major metropolitan city and he hasn’t met up with anyone. Boxing wasn’t his only interest. He was into Wrestling and MMA as well and THAT’S when the Red Flags screamed at me. This profile was DEFINITELY Fake!

WTF guys? Are we REALLY still doing this in 2022? Did the 90’s and early 2000’s teach us Nothing?! What’s the point? Or are you one of those guys that gets his rocks off creating fake profiles to see how many unsuspecting people come by to check it out and send messages that you’ll NEVER reply to. And believe me, I’ve heard of some strange kinks, but that’s just a sorry one. You need to seek counseling and GET A LIFE!! So yeah, I’m throwing some hate back at ya. But not because I fell for your BS, but for all the future young upcoming studs that you’ll screw over with your pathetic shit. Congrats you’ve run off another potential Legit Boxer that probably idolizes the image you’ve posted on your site and he wants to be like you. But now that you’ve selfishly ignored him and brushed him off to get your jollies off he’s dissuaded and may not trust other profiles he comes across. Way to welcome new members into our small community and increase the numbers…. NOT!
I KNOW you’ll NEVER step one foot in the ring with me, but KNOW that you’ve made an enemy this day and I WILL FUCKING Destroy you if the opportunity ever comes.

Stepping down off my Soap Box now.

Y'all didn't tell me I skipped over BOXING RANT XIV. This is a follow up for XIII

“You’re gonna beat me up, right?”
"Yeah."
“Then KO me? Are you gonna hit me with your left fist or your right fist first. Tell me every punch you’re gonna throw at me.”
“WHAT… THE… FUCK…?”

Is this a dress rehearsal for the next brain dead Rocky movie or an actual beatdown that you’ll end up KO’d in? Why the fuck do you need to know every punch, combination and move I’m gonna make against you? Why don’t I just tell you how to defend against everything I’m gonna throw? Where is the anticipation of the unknown if you know what’s gonna happen? Someone needs to explain this to me. Mind you, I’m a writer, but my fight scenes are not pre-thought out. I start from a point and let the battle flow in my head till the end where I need the two Boxers to end up. Why would a submissive want to know every detail of a fight before it happens?!?!?! A fight is new, unpredictable, fresh, unexpected, split microsecond decisions based on a multitude of variations. There’s absolutely no way to determine what punch a guy is gonna through beforehand. Even if the guy is tied up like a punching bag, just figure you’re gonna get hit with every kind of blow that can be thrown. That is unless the puncher is pathetic newbie and doesn’t actually know how to punch another man properly.

I’m really shaking my head right now, almost like when you shake a baby really hard to try and put some sense into them. The majority of fighters that get KO’d never see the punch coming. Why does the “Punch Chump” need to know the KO shot? Even in most cases when two guys are just playing around one guy can suddenly get his lights turned out and he vaguely, if at all remembers the shot that put him down.

C’mon readers, hit me up with some possibilities cause I’m scratching my chin with several question marks pulsating as they float over my head right now.

Oh and before I forget can you explain to me why after agreeing to fight a guy he has to talk with you EVERY DAY, for an hour or more, leading up to the day of the fight, asking you EVERY question about the fight only to FLAKE out and disappear the day before the bout is supposed to take place? I can’t… I just can’t, because this has happened to me more than a few times. Because now when the questions start coming a mile a minute, it’s an instance red flag of an impending No Show.

“Hey man, I worked out all the details to fight this Hot Boxer this weekend and when I asked him about sex afterwards he blew me off and won’t respond. What’s the deal?”

“Dude! Just because the two of you share the same kink doesn’t mean you’re getting laid afterward.”

“What do you mean?”

“Sure you might look good in gear and actually give him a decent fight, but that doesn’t mean the two of you will hit it off sexually. He might think your breath stinks or you have ugly feet. Hitting it off in the ring doesn’t mean you’ll hit it off in the sheets. As much as many of us like to fantasize about two boxers getting it on after a match, NOTHING is guaranteed.”

“Oh.”

What’s up fellas? I probably ran a few of you off with that convo before my BOXING RANT can even begin, but its WWAAYY more common than you think. What’s the deal? How is this still a thing? Okay, so many of you are young and horny so just the thought of boxing a hot guy gets your cock ROCK hard. And some of you may be older and have a hard time meeting guys so you figure this is the perfect way to meet an athlete and/or sex partner. But it doesn’t mean after you two exchange blows you’ll be swapping spit. MeetFighters and few others sites are a good way to meet guys into your sport/kink, but it’s NOT a Definitive YES when it comes to laying the dude when the leather finally settles. TALK to your opponent FIRST. He might have a partner, be dating someone or just not plain interested in you sexually. He’s an athlete, he can get sex anywhere. There have been a multitude of guys I wanted to fuck after we fought, but the chemistry just wasn’t there. Nor was it agreed upon before our bout began.

Oh and asking if your opponent will fuck you after he knocks you out is Also NOT Guaranteed. It’s like basically luring a guy to the ring so you can take a few punches just to get some dick. YEESH! Dude are you that hard up?

Some guys might be taking this personal, but it’s NOT just about YOU. It’s about YOU and HIM. While you’re working out the details of the fight, work out the details of the aftermath. This is 2022, MAD KUDOS for showing up and actually putting on the gloves to fight, but making it to home base is never promised.

I’ve got a question: Why do men wait so late in life to come to terms with their attraction for Boxing? In truth, I believe I briefly spoke on this before… so I’d like some fresh perspectives.

In this current day and age with homosexuality being more widely accepted, why are men still waiting till they are past 40 & 50 to accept the fact that they’re “Agonophiliacs” - https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Agonophilia. Where is the shame? Given many people’s perception of gay men, how cool is it to defy the odds and present an entirely different aspect of a stereotypical image. What’s more masculine than a man that enjoy hitting on men? You like my pun there?
Interestingly, I know a guy that was quote straight unquote and didn’t want to tell his friends and family that he boxed because they would discover he was gay. WHAT THE ENTIRE FUCK?!?!?! I guess that should give you some idea of how screwed up some guys are in the head. But seriously… what’s the deal? If anyone watched Spartacus there were plenty of gay fighters in Greek times. Lord knows Knights were fucking their squires when the women were claiming virginity and rocking chastity belts.

Too often men deny their true selves only to have it forced to the surface later in life. I say Embrace ALL facets of your being and be who you were meant to be. You will NEVER look back and regret what you’ve done.

Special NOTE: Many of you might be surprised at the number of Pro and Amateur gay boxers out here.

“Hey man, I just got in town. Let’s fight!”
“What’s up stud? I’m glad to see you’re in town, but I’m busy. If you had messaged ahead of time, we could’ve done something. I’ve got OTHER plans tonight.”

I’M BACK for 2021 BOXERS! With a Fresh RANT!

Okay, so this just happened to me recently, but I’m told this happens to most of my fighting brethren in California. A guy comes into town and hits you up out of the blue wanting to fight. UHM… RUDE MUCH! How do you just show up without contacting the person you want to fight ahead of time? Is that person not human? They’re not your personal tool to summon like a mystical object. Did you not think that maybe they might have a life just like you? That perhaps they have a job, plans and other obligations other than your personal gratification. Given the difficultly and the specifics that need to be worked out for two guys to meet up and engage in fisticuffs; wouldn’t it be wise to “phone” or “text” ahead and let the other guy know you’re coming? I mean, call me crazy for being a considerate logical thinking person, but shouldn’t you arrange the specifics beforehand so the experience is much better for both of you?

Okay readers, let me hear from you. I’d love to hear you and your experience(s) with this.