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Feel Me?

i can't remember the exact date but when i was young i saw a fistfight on TV ,maybe a western, and seemingly by instinct my cock stiffened and i've been turned-on by fighting ever since. my fetish has evolved over the years to include many different personally arousing aspects of fighting such as, attire, gloves vs no gloves, even the sounds of punches landing and grunting can be enough. for me, there's just something about the image of two men meeting each other to put up there dukes and work it out that is ultra-hot for me. i've come to discover that there are many other guys (and girls) who also can get sexually aroused by either having some kind of fight, or simply watching a fight. it is tough to fully explain why it happens, i have no desire to fight for my safety or truly harm anybody. (at least no more than they want to be harmed) However, there is a certain amount of aggression that comes forth and is part of what makes it hot but not in a way that, for me, ever gets out of control.
i know the fetish takes on all kinds of flavors for different people. Some people get turned-on by wrestling, others by simply wearing the gear, and so on. i happen to like boxing and punching-type fights and i have an impact fetish. i actually like getting punched in certain places, in fact, if the comfort-level is high and the action is right, i could climax while taking punches.
I'm hoping to hear from any of you who connect with this type of thing and want to share your thoughts or feelings, or fantasies about it. Doesn't matter what it is that turns you on, it'd be cool to hear from you about it.

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Last edited on 3/29/2015 8:21 AM by Tradeblows
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punchpignyc (11 )

6/29/2021 4:42 AM

I could have written your missive to us - exactly what turns me on. Get in touch if you want. 212 253 9709 Guy Please log in to view gallery photos.

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boxglv12 (2)

6/28/2021 4:28 PM

man that describes me exactly

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punchpignyc (11 )

7/14/2019 4:12 PM

Great thread. Tradeblows presses all my buttons in his account of why fistfights, bareknuckled or gloved, turn me on so completely. What’s been great over the 30+ years I’ve been exploring these punching sessions is that my growing ability to take a real punch has not only made things hotter but has pretty much taken away any fear of getting punched. A good deal of what keeps me going & loving this stuff is that I’ve worked out ways to punch and get punched where I can sort of throw punches and eat them while keeping them both real and comparatively safe — & keeping the fighters this side of ending up in the ER. For example not hitting the eye head on but aiming a short sharp shot to the orbital bones just above & to side of eye & the upper cheek bone. Because the skin is so tight over those bones a well-aimed bare fist can quickly and gratifyingly lump it, create a black eye without damaging the eye. In this way bare fists because they can be more accurately aimed are usually safer than allout WHOMP gloved punches which often aren’t aimed anywhere near as precisely. I frankly love marking and getting marked like this although won’t do it unless agreed upon with an opponent. Ditto a fat and bloody lip - if you get off on a little blood that’s the easiest way to get it dripping. You can do it in a single punch or two. You always go for the short sharp surgically precise knuckle on lip hit - the sting of taking it has become a definite thrill to me, even if it makes drinking orange juice hurt the mouth for a few days. Those who get off on marking and getting marked not only work out relatively safe ways but discover as often as not how HARD it is to mark a man. In most cases unless you have very fine or delicate skin, you’ll certainly feel a barrage of hard shots to the face (and exhilarated by them if you’re me) but chances are you won’t be marked at all apart from maybe a little temporary reddening which. (Think of how much professional boxing you’ve watched with both men landing hard neither of whom are marked st the end of the fight.) Obviously you’re always skirting some degree of danger punching or getting punched in the face but there are ways to keep it hot and real while minimizing the likelihood of permanent damage. You can have your punch and eat it too, I guess.
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Magneto (5)

2/03/2019 6:48 PM

I so feel you on that! That was me too and still is. Just love it!

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fightfan1 (0)

9/25/2017 12:41 AM

I just stumbled across this blog entry Tradeblows, and that is EXACTLY like me!!! I believe it started with the original Kung Fu series with David Carradine, and it gradually morphed into other forms of combat, especially boxing/fistfighting.......

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boxtpntx (0)

8/13/2017 9:03 PM

Hey, guys, feel the same way you do. Found some info in another profile that explained the fetish. Now there is a name for it. Read it below:

Agonophilia
Agonophilia covers a broad range of sexual arousal, from fighting paraphernalia (boxing gloves, protective cups, headgear, mouthpieces, satin trunks) and through the actual engagement in fighting (legitimate or fantasy). For those who actually fight the arousal is multi-dimensional. The combination of fighting gear, the physical contact with the opponent, inflicting and sustaining injury, and the actual fight is indescribable. Depending of the quality of the match, the sexual energy between the competitors, and the presence of spectators, some matches go to legitimate knockout, and sexual intercourse may follow with dominance and submissive roles determined by the outcome of the fight. Some men who ordinarily consider themselves straight clealrly enjoy the combination of fighting gear and male to male contact while fighting, and of course volumes could be written about the attraction to mixed boxing and female on female fighting.
Barry was an incredibly hot man and a good boxer. Our three separate fights were intense and bloody. Because we fought in a public boxing arena intercourse was out of the question. Early in the fourth round of the last fight I broke his nose with a three punch combination and he clinched to avoid being knocked out. As he tried desperately to keep me close so I couldn't throw another punch, the front of his protective cup pushed against mine, and I could feel him thrust his hips forward which caused me to have an immediate erection. Agonophilia caused me to shoot a load in my trunks just as the referee stopped the fight due to his excessive bleeding. After this we frequently had private bouts that were sensual and brutal. The sexual arousal from the gear, his great body and from beating him up felt very primal and the winner took the dominant role in any sexual interaction.
#agonophilia#boxing#fighting#gloves#gear#pain#blood#knockout
by GlovedFighter August 10, 2015

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Dadfights (24)

3/26/2016 4:34 PM

I agree totally!
I love to stand toe to toe and trade shots, gloved (8 oz. or MMA gloves) or barefisted.
The thrill of stripping down to jeans, or shorts, barefoot, and ready to go!
I would love to do it with you!
I have a fantasy of finding a secluded outdoor place and stripping off and going for for it.
Dave

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